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The episode's own mini exercise, from 30:55. Use it for one friend or for a whole group chat.
Stars are for honest, specific answers. It never tells you whether the friendship is good. Answering “defensive” earns the same star as “curious”.
“Are you being 80% yourself? Are you being 10% yourself?” 31:10
At the Maine bachelorette, Jean was the only single woman there. Everyone else was married, and all but one had kids. “There were points in the conversation where I obviously had nothing to add.”
“My first thought was, they are so different. But then I took a step back and I was like, wait, I’m the different one.”
Jean · 24:06
Her takeaway was to build friendships with people in a similar life stage, because “for a weekend it was beautiful,” but every day “I would start to feel bad.” This is for anyone who has felt like the different one at the table: single at an age when that comes with a look, child-free, a career detour, a move nobody else made.
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“Wait, I'm the different one.” 24:06
Only facts the captions tie to one sister. The trips to Japan, the matcha farm and the friendship-breakup tears are left out until we know who said them.
Just the two of them, back from a wholesome bachelorette in Vermont, a countryside weekend in Portugal and a bachelorette in Maine. Along the way: the difference between a holiday and a vacation, a COVID bob, a Jeff Probst shirt, and the friendship audit.
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